get a grip!


as i posted before, about old friends “it’s the truth” it is true that relationship is not based on memories but based on contact maintenance.

i’m feeling that one of my good friend, slowly becomes regular friend since he’s not here anymore, if i see the pictures, if i play the movie of our time together (with the others too) in my brain, tears can drop from my eyes, but i ain’t going to waste my tears anymore, it’s stupid.

i just want to remind you, get a grip of your present friends, spend GOOD times with them as much as possible, and tell them what you think of them personally, don’t wait until you’re apart, because it’ll means nothing, so try to do everything you want to do with them, before it’s too late and all you can do is just remembring the stupid movie about old times in your brain, like what i used to do.

maybe it’s me who’s too sensitive

maybe it’s me who think of him/her as a bestfriend when they never think so

maybe it’s the distance and time

maybe it’s human nature

but i love all my friends.


here’s a song about friendship in chinese, the lyrics are good

友情 無聲降臨 我回味從前 想起了你

心中泛起了一波波漣漪 雖有時嘔氣卻還是珍惜

朋友 曾經相惜 我站在窗前 靜靜回憶

臉上浮起了一絲絲笑意 心中雖有時感到空虛卻依舊溫馨

今年夏天是個充滿希望的季節 我們就要說再見

不知何時會相見 曾相處的畫面 不停重複上映在眼前

今年夏天有種令人不捨的感覺 徘徊在你我之間

抹去彼此流下的淚水 重新展開笑顏 各自踏上錦繡的明天

友情 不曾離去 我想起從前 好多美麗

人生不一定會一切順利 但我會將你放在心裡 替自己打氣

今年夏天是個充滿希望的季節 我們就要說再見

不知何時會相見 曾相處的畫面 不停重複上映在眼前

今年夏天有種令人不捨的感覺 徘徊在你我之間

抹去彼此流下的淚水 重新展開笑顏 各自踏上錦繡的明天

今年夏天是個離情依依的季節 我們友情到永遠

對你說一聲再會(註) 輕輕畫上句點 最美的句點


4 Responses to “get a grip!”

  1. 1 Anonymous
    March 21, 2009 at 2:55 am

    hmm.. yes 😀

    in a relationship of any kind, makes sure do everything you want in it, so you won’t regret when it ends 😀

  2. March 22, 2009 at 2:46 pm

    yes, i agree with you!

  3. April 15, 2009 at 2:01 pm

    i’m not crying again
    i don’t want to shed tears for him anymore
    but still
    why can’t i let go of this friend?
    why can’t i accept the truth that he moves on
    and having new and better friends??


    (is this friendship love or jealousy, i can’t differentiate anymore)

  4. June 14, 2011 at 9:56 pm

    Nice Blog with Excellent information

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